foxfamilyfeatures:

i honestly feel like affirming your heterosexuality in a queer space is an act of aggression, if you have to maintain that youre straight at a gay event in order to feel alright with yourselfs then you should probably just not be there 

although, if you are not cis affirming your sexuality, whatever it is, is often neccessery because its always under scrutiny and question even in queer spaces.