ducksaysm00:

mmmmiilk:

There are 4 things I learned when I was 25:

You do not have to be affectionate all the time to care for someone, in fact, caring can also mean a couple of texts or silence for a few days while you both live your lives happily and separately.

People do not care for you less when they’re busy with their own lives. It’s your reaction to them being their own person – and your ability to make yourself happy – that determines how they feel about you.

Not everyone reciprocates to your actions the same way. If you want someone to acknowledge, be interested in, or treat you a certain way for your efforts, all you have to do is let them know. They will try their personal best to accommodate that within their personal spectrum of feelings.

No one owes you 100% of them, not even after 30 years, because someone having a percentage of themselves is what keeps them sane at the end of the day and that’s okay.

These things are so important to learn.

gaydavidfincher:

hey guys you haven’t probably heard of this but a Museum dedicated to Jewish Moroccans & Judaism and Jewish culture(s) is gonna open soon in Fez, Morocco. This is huge because Fez has historically been a city where a lot of Jewish Moroccans lived (and still live!!!!). Many Muslim Moroccans are starting to recognize how important Judaism and Jewish people’s impact on our Maghrebi culture are which makes me beyond happy. Jewish Moroccans have always existed & their religion/culture(s) are inherently Moroccan culture as well and it’s about time we non-Jewish Moroccans started realizing it !!!!!

gaymilesedgeworth:

it bears repeating that any single time Jewish LGBT people on Tumblr talk about LGBT gentiles being inappropriate with regards to the Holocaust, LGBT gentiles literally always show up and assume that the OP is a cishet, and that they must therefore Represent The Voice of the LGBT People, because none of us could POSSIBLY be Jewish and LGBT at the same time

you honestly believe that Jews are so Other that we couldn’t be part of your community, and you believe that gentiles are the only people who can truly speak authoritatively on LGBT issues. 

and y’all are so incredibly transparent about this.