Wow it’s almost like the oversexualisation of queerness is one of the reasons why asexuals, non-binary folks and aromantics are not seen as queer enough to be part of the community
how does this effect non-binary people? I’m not making the connection (allosexual aro people too actually but oversexualisation tends to come along with overly focused on romantic relationships so that kind of makes more sense)
(I mean this does also miss the massive racial aspect when it comes to oversexualisation/desexualisation dynamics…but whatever)