dreamlordmorpheus:

If you aren’t cisgender heteroromantic heterosexual, you belong in the queer community. I’m sick of seeing this bullshit “you aren’t queer enough” sort of community policing.

And by “cisgender heteroromantic heterosexual” I mean ALL THREE of those things.

Are you a trans (binary or nonbinary) person who is heteroromantic heterosexual? You belong in the LGBTA+ community.

Are you a cis person who is heteroromantic asexual? You belong.

Are you a cis person who is heterosexual aromantic? You belong.

Are you a cis bisexual who is currently dating a cis member of the opposite gender? You belong.

Are you an intersex individual who otherwise is heteroromantic heterosexual? You belong.

Stop trying to alienate people based on some fucked-up “level of queerness”. There are enough problems in the LGBTA+ community without people being exclusive.

being intersex does not in and of itself make you not cisgender so you can be all three of heteroromantic heterosexual and cisgender and if you are also intersex you would still be part of the LGBT+ community (should you wish too be)

(you can also be trans and intersex obviously, but the conflation of being intersex with being trans or with not being cisgender is a problem and people need to not do it)